One in six men will be a victim of domestic abuse during their lifetime according to ManKind[1], an organisation helping men escape domestic abuse. This abuse can take place in a variety of ways including psychological, physical, sexual, financial, and emotional abuse. Domestic abuse features in both heterosexual and same sex relationships to men from every background, regardless of culture, race, occupation, or age.

Domestic abuse cases have sadly increased in number as a result of the Covid-19 pandemic with victims finding themselves stuck in their homes with their abuser. But unfortunately for many men, reaching out for support can be a struggle due to a belief in a stigma associated with abuse, with many men often feeling embarrassed and that they will not be believed, or that there will be repercussions if they do speak out.

The first step to preventing domestic abuse is to speak to someone and seek support. There are several charitable organisations which help men suffering from domestic abuse by providing support and advice. ManKind Initiative have a confidential helpline for men suffering from domestic abuse and domestic violence to call weekdays from 10am – 4pm, whilst Respect Men’s Advice Line have a Freephone number in operation weekdays from 9am – 8pm. They also offer email support, and a web chat on their website. If you are in immediate danger, you should not hesitate in calling 999.

It is also important to know that if you are suffering from domestic abuse, you can seek legal advice. It is possible to obtain a Non-Molestation Order against your abuser (an abuser being someone you’re having or have had a relationship with; a family member; or someone you’re living or have lived with). A Non-Molestation Order would prevent your abuser from exhibiting or threatening violence against you or instructing anyone else to do so; intimidating, harassing or threatening you or in any way or suggesting that any third party should do so; contacting you or instructing, encouraging or in any way suggesting that any third party should do so; and from attending your property.

At Jackson Quinn we provide 30 minute free advice sessions in relation to domestic abuse issues.

It is important to be able to recognise abuse, and be able to gain support, for both yourself and your family.

If you feel that you are in need of advice and support, please make contact us:

Email: admin@jacksonquinn.com

Phone:
Nottingham 0115 9487811

Retford 01777 703111

Worksop 01909 480066

Mansfield 01623 277101

Newark 01623 610175

For emergency support on family matters out of hours: 07765779334

Alternatively, here are some details of organisations who provide support for male victims of domestic abuse:

ManKind Initiative:
https://www.mankind.org.uk/
Telephone: 01823 334244

Respect Men’s Advice Line:
https://mensadviceline.org.uk/
https://www.mankind.org.uk/help-for-victims/

Author: Alicia Snape
Alicia Snape is a Paralegal based at our Retford office.